Tuesday of the Third Week of Lent
FORGIVE US AS WE FORGIVE
Introduction
We don’t like too much – or not at all – to acknowledge it, but we have been forgiven a lot. Open, scandalous, upsetting sins... maybe not. Probably not. But scandalous, in the sense of totally unexpected on the part of people who profess to be the sign of the Church, of Christ, of God... perhaps yes: antipathies, non-sharing, animosities, enmities nurtured for years, living side-by-side without genuine love and sharing, maybe yes... and to many or at least some do the opposite of witnessing to what we profess to be, yes... Where is our forgiving others as God has forgiven us, as we pray in the Lord’s Prayer?
Opening Prayer
Lord, our God,
we consider ourselves your chosen flock,
the people who profess to be your sign of reconciliation.
God, how poor we are! How often we fail you
by forgiving by an act of condescension,
as if we did a great favor
to those who sought to be reconciled with us.
Lord, help us to forgive
the way and to the extent that you forgive us:
unconditionally and totally,
in the goodness of our hearts.
Give us this greatness of heart
through Jesus Christ, our Lord.
Intercessions
– That we may be patient with one another, as God has been patient with us, we pray:
– That we may forgive one another, as God has forgiven us, we pray:
– That we may keep loving one another, as God keeps loving us even when we have repeatedly hurt his love, we pray:
Prayer over the Gifts
Merciful Father,
we welcome your Son
in these signs of bread and wine
as the Lord of forgiveness,
who laid down his life for us.
May we, whom you call your chosen ones,
beloved and called to be holy,
be found ready to forgive willingly,
notwithstanding antipathies and hurt feelings,
that we may be to one another
the sign of your forgiveness,
which goes beyond our human feelings,
as followers of Jesus Christ, our Lord.
Prayer after Communion
Lord, it is beautiful but hard
to be the body of your Son,
the sign of the forgiveness and life
that he brings to the world.
But give us the courage, notwithstanding and beyond
all our human feelings, sympathies and antipathies,
to bring to all around us
your message of love, tolerance, peace and joy,
which you have given us here again
through the body and blood
of Jesus Christ, our Lord.
Blessing
We are people who have received forgiveness from the Lord, and hopefully at times, also from people. We should know how to forgive, so that our praying in the Our Father may be truthful. May Almighty God bless you, the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
Reflection:
5 March 2024
Matthew 18:21-35
Let what is poured into you flow through you
Our Gospel today focuses on the gift of forgiveness. Jesus' ministry and preaching centred on this in the New Testament. When someone offends us, we tend to become passionate advocates of fairness and morality. We will remember every insult, every snub, and every shortcoming when it comes to our being hurt by others. That is why it is so hard to forgive even once or twice.
Forgiving seven times, as Peter suggests, is already beyond the normal. Yet Jesus says to him, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times.” In other words, forgive constantly, relentlessly, and without calculation. Your whole life must become an act of forgiveness.
The parable in today’s Gospel tells the story of a man who had been forgiven so much. He should, at the very least, show forgiveness to the one who owed him so much less. The spiritual essence of the matter is that no matter what someone owes you, it is far less than what God has generously given to you. The forgiveness you have received from God is much greater than any forgiveness you may be required to offer.
Becoming an instrument of God’s life, grace, forgiveness, and peace is the ultimate goal. Let what has been poured into you flow through you - that's the whole story.